How difficult is to make decisions when there is so much to lose. The human being as sociable, is used to seek approval and advice of those around you and especially those he has affection or admiration.
To me, this is a daily occurrence, as I always like to ask the opinion of those who I care, but sometimes not the best and although the truth, never ignore them.
I think because of this, we repress what we want or feel because someone else tells us what we should do, or what would be "better" for us (as if we knew each other well). But I think nobody knows better than yourself what you want or need, especially because we spend a lifetime to bear the consequences of what we decide, not the people who support us.
I'm mad, I feel sometimes my impulses are correct and that for some, common sense is so popular. But these impulses vanish from thousands of tips to reduce my ability to listen to my own needs and I'm slowly closing in on a dome built from my fear of what people might say, and obviously stop what I really feel or think.
What would life be without impulses. Come to think of the best things I've experienced have been those who did not seek advice or approval, and decided at the time, so I am: impulsive and happy. Nor do I remove the credit to everybody who advised me, on the contrary, without it many times and probably would not be watered where I am.
But I mean the positive impulses, those good chances that you know will not be repeated and should be in the moment, almost without thinking, much less without consulting others. Today I experienced a rejection
quite strong, in fact the first in my life, because he had always been carried through life more comfortable and secure, say I was in my comfort zone. But what happens when that is just because one does not know what to do and seek advice. That's what I did and it turns out what I should have done was follow my hunches.
Fortunately, every day will be a tomorrow in which they can fix things, which can think and let guide right instinct, and there will be days when you have to let the momentum lead us to really feel alive.
I want to eat a double ice cream with melted chocolate? God, it's nothing serious but still, it's hard not to think about the repercussions when the rise worry kilos away only causes me to live a moment of happiness, the kind that you need every day to cope. The early Sunday
handed me something. Fortunately, there was nothing rational, did not ask permission from anyone and I followed my impulses, which allowed me to have an adventure, perhaps not too exaggerated, but that made me feel alive and happy, grateful for every second that accumulates in my life.
Seeing the movie "Public Enemies", I began to reflect on this and it Without delay he had to write about it. What is life without the thrill of impulses? Why do we have to limit ourselves so much when there are millions of experiences that we face every day and that we are blinded to them? What's the worst that can happen if we follow the impulses of happiness? Yes, that mistake and have to solve the problem ... what difficult. But ultimately I think for me, that's the essence of life, live, make mistakes, learn and live again. Who does not just come here and die pitch. No more.
I think asking for opinions is only an excuse for not taking responsibility for our actions, not confront them and to feel that the blame for the bad consequences is not fully ours ... How boring live on what others say.
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